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Why men lose interest in sex and 8 tips to rekindle desire


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  1. Jayesh Parekh says:

    I don’t have loss of libido, but problem with me is, I come too fast. I’m not married, but I have girlfriend. I watch in porn movies that pornstars can enjoy sexual intercourse for a longer time. Can we also do so? Do they apply any gel on the man organ? I see in market, we have some spray available, should we try it? Is it harmful? Any gel you would suggest for a man to keep his semen for a longer time? This would be a great help.

    1. Dr PARAS SHAH says:

      Dear Mr,


      The premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual disorders, perhaps as common as the common cold. Generally ‘climaxing’ before one wants to, is considered as ‘premature ejaculation’. The premature ejaculation is defined as “persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, during, or shortly after penetration and before the person wishes it.”

      The causes may be primary, wherein the disorder exists from the beginning or secondary wherein it occurs subsequent to a prior normal function. The causes are situational or constitutional. Situational causes (usually primary) are Anxiety, Sexual inexperience, Deterioration of relationship, Victimization by partner, Prolonged abstinence, Unrealistic expectations from self/partner. Where as constitutional cause (usually secondary) are Diabetes mellitus, Neurological disorders & Genito-urinary pathology.

      Some cases of premature ejaculation are more severe, bringing the man to orgasm as soon as his penis makes vaginal contact. In less severe cases the man is able to make vaginal entry and stroke, but unable to maintain control in high levels of arousal. The voluntary ejaculator can sustain sexual intercourse in the “plateau” stage of arousal, maximizing sexual stimulation as the penis is at its most erect state before climax.

      Many techniques have been used to delay orgasm. The one you used is also common one. Other method commonly used by many includes mental arithmetic, local anesthetic ointment, wearing a disposable tissue and condom around the penis to decrease sensitivity, yogic exercises and oral medicine. Out of all these option only oral medicine is the only very effective way to handle premature ejaculation problem.

      1) Sexual Therapy

      Usually requires weeks of hourly sessions in attempt to determine causes and establish a keener sense of premonitory sensations.

      2) Rings

      Devise utilized to trap blood in the penis by applying pressure to the key arteries/vessels through which blood is transported into the penis. Commonly used to treat impotence but has become a method for preventing premature ejaculation too.

      3) Topical ointment

      Local anesthetic ointment used to reduce sensitivity in the highly sensitive areas of the organ. Usually applied 10 to 15 minutes prior to sexual contact. A Topical can be presented in a variety of ways, from an all-natural liquid roll on to spray on solutions. Researchers report side effects, typically “some degree of numbness of the penis.” Another downside was that the men were required to put on a condom before sex to ensure that the topical ointment does not affect partner. The cream’s effectiveness may diminish over time.

      4) Sexual Position

      The female superior position often helps delay the premature ejaculation.

      5) Yogic Exercises

      The Vajroli Mudra and the Ashwini Mudra could be of help in the treatment of premature ejaculation. These yogic exercises strengthen the anterior and posterior part of the pubococcygeus muscles respectively. Such exercises when done ten times, every morning and evening for six to eight weeks often give adequate control over the orgasmic reflex. Sometimes, practice of contracting the anterior part of the pubococcygeus muscle just prior to orgasmic (ejaculatory) inevitability during coitus helps to delay the orgasm (climax).

      6) Oral Medicine

      This medicines delivers the essential building blocks to the body necessary for optimal sexual performance. The men’s partners appreciated the treatment as well. According to the men’s reports, the women in their lives were more than twice as likely to have an orgasm when the men were using the treatment. They note, the problem of premature ejaculation may disappear after treatment of three months and make treatment unnecessary. However these medicines are not recommended for use if person is suffering from enlarged prostate.


      Dr Paras Shah

  2. MAHESH SHAH says:


    1. Dr PARAS SHAH says:

      Dear Mr,


      Concern regarding penile size is as old as the human race. The width, length and erection of the penis varies from one individual to another as does the length of the nose, the depth and spacing of the eyes and the width of forehead. The average sexual length of the vagina is about 15cms and only the outer third (5cms) has the maximum nerve endings, the inner two-thirds (10cms) being virtually insensitive.

      If one wants to arouse his partner, he should concentrate on the area where there are maximum nerve endings i.e. the outer lips (labia majora) and the outer third i.e. outer 5 cms of the vagina. Therefore, for female sexual gratification, the size of the erect penis could be anything from 5cms plus. However, the size of the penis may be an important factor for women who harbour the myth man with a larger penis can satisfy his partner better than one with a smaller one. An archer is known by his aim and not by his arrow.

      And the length in the flaccid state is immaterial as it is used for urination only. It is the erect penis that is used for performing the sex act.

      Same way the width of the penis is also not important. Because the vagina is highly elastic. It can expand from the size of the little finger to that of the baby’s head. The vagina accommodates itself to the width and size of the inserted penis.

      However still if you want to increase the size of the penis, can be done at my hospital. Address is as follow,

      23 Jain Society

      Near Jalaram Temple

      Lane Opp Jayshiyaram Pendawala’s Shop


      Ahmedabad 380 006

      Office Numbers are 91-79-26578936/6164

      You need to take prior appointment and can be taken on above given office numbers.

      Dr Paras Shah

  3. khan says:

    sir plz tel me obute shukranu kase bante hai me somoking karta hu….

  4. arth says:

    ડો.સાહેબ મારી ઉમર ૧૬ વર્ષ ની છે. મારું શિશ્ન ઉતેજીત અવસ્થામાં ૩.૫ ઇન્ચ જેટલું લાંબુ થાય છે.તો શિશ્ન મોટું કરવા ના ઉપાયો જણાવવા વિનંતી…….

  5. Imran khan says:

    I m your regular reader and i was suffering from E.D. And P.E. But i know that in every morning i got erection so it’s not any physical problem.and i consulted with psychologist and he prescribed me medicines like,sysmo,spenzo, gradually i got everything back and i enjoyed 7 to 6 time good sex but in now days 24 hours i m worried that my problem will be back and i m worried that what will happen i m so tense sometimes i think to suicide plz must reply me sir!!!

  6. anjalirichards says:

    I have a question? what do I do when I have a men that we have had a great sex life … now all he dos is play video games, when I whant sex I have to ask him.. it not that I am not ok looking… but he will watch porn, and if I am siting in my pantys he will sit there and jake off.. but then I am like ok he must want sex and then he tells me no…he’s tired, if I try to touch him he brishes my hand away…this has just resuntly staterd happing what do I do? I mean this is the father to my kids and we were supposed to get merried? what is going on?

  7. Anthonio says:

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  8. Clara Williams says:

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  10. chiemela chinyere says:

    Reach me through my email having. Sex issues with my finance need some advice. Thanks

  11. soeb s bhati says:

    dear sir,
    i had dignose 100% one vain of my heart is blocked.i m taking a drug for reduce colestrol n thickning blood.from last six months i loose my libido n have a erection problem.i feel so depresse due to this problem.
    i m highly obliged if u will suggest any drugs to cure my problems.yuor sugestion save many life apart from me.
    thanking u.

  12. Gadhiya Sahil says:

    Sir mera ling chota he iski vjha se me tension me hu pls sir iska koi upay btao jise mera ling bda ho sake our me mere partner ke sath achese time bita saku.

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